This year, now that I'm working and out of college, I wanted to get a little gift for my grandma (Omi), Grandma/Grandpa, and my great-grandma. Just something small, maybe 10 dollars or so. But, I'm not sure what to get them, and my parents aren't being much help. I haven't seen any of them in about a year (my family isn't very close) but I wanted to send them a little reminder that I know they're there. Omi - She's about 95, and she's, well, not doing too great. She's pretty much bed-ridden and her memory is basically gone. She doesn't even know who her kids are most of the time, though sometimes she does, and recognizes people. My mom said it wouldn't be worth getting her anything as she wouldn't know the difference anyways. Grandma and Grandma - They are in their 70s... They are both still sane and mobile. They don't really pay much attention to me, or my brother, as we're not the "favorite" grandkids. They usually don't even call us or give us a card on our birthdays. I wouldn't say they really have ANY particular interests, they spend most of their time shopping (like endless hours at walmart) or with the "favorite" grandkids (not me). They do gossip quite a bit though, and I really want to get my great grandma something, (Great Grandma would be my on their side of the family) so I can't really get great grandma something without getting them something as I'll be basically shunned and likely talked about behind my back to the rest of the family. (I'm not even joking.. I told my dad I saw a picture of their "favorite" grandson drinking on facebook, and he told my grandma, and my grandma made up a rumor about me being a drug addicted sl*t which she then spread to the rest of the family) Great Grandma - Probably my favorite relative that I totally took for granted until last Christmas. She's my dad's grandma, but he kind of ignores her. He might send her a card at Christmas, but no calls on her birthday or gifts or anything. She's ALMOST 100, and she's still completely in her right mind. She lives in a retirement home, but she has her own little apartment and does everything for herself. Her apartment is small, and she doesn't really have much room. My dad told me not to get anything "because she doesn't have room", but I think it's actually because HES not getting her anything and he doesn't want to be basically shown-up. She's actually like the coolest old person I know though, and she doesn't really have much time left so I'd like to get her something small. What would be my options? Should I just do what my parents say and not get anyone anything? Would it be fair to send something to one person but not to any of the others? I was thinking about just sending them all flowers? I don't have a picture of me with any of the grand/greatgrandparents unfortunately, and I'm HORRIBLE at writing meaningful things.. even when someone tells me really great/awful things I usually just have a sort of "hmm" response, as I don't know what to say... And my grandparents would find out.. they're pretty close with my great grandma :S

I took my best friend to the dance this weekend and did some romantic things, i even kissed her good night on the cheek as i walked her to her door. Now at school she hasnt said a word to me yet, and her facebook status indicated something that she wondered WHY this was happening to her... i am so depressed right now she means everything in the world to me... What can i do????

I have not been with my boyfriend for very long, about a month and a half now. I am not in love with him yet, I really like him but he is not the love of my life or anything. He is just really nice, we get on well and he treats me really well. I am pretty high maintenance and he can keep up with that! I am not a very jealous person, but he tagged me in some pictures today so I went on his facebook to look at them and noticed things on his page, he talks to lots of girls and has commented on a lot of girls pictures in the last day calling them posers, saying 'grrrr' to one of them, and having flirtatious conversations with them. I don't want him to think I am a stalker or anything but what should I do?

me and my boyfriend started dating over 2 years ago and his best "girl" friend at the time had told him to stay away from me and to not date me and that he had to choose between me or her. When he chose me she started making up rumours about me and i lost all of my high school friends. Now suddenly she moved back to our town (she had moved away when he stopped talking to her) and she added him as a friend on facebook. i begged him not to add her because for 3 months she made my life hell and i cried every night.. he added her because he said he didnt want to start any drama. then i went out of town this weekend and he went to the bar and saw her there and they hugged and talked which really upset me because he told me he had no intentions on talking to her ever again. last night he said he had to tell me something and said he wants to talk to her again.. this is killing me and my feelings are so hurt more than ever. i love him so much but i just dont knwo what to do and it feels like he has been lying to me now all because of her. had she not added him on facebook he wouldnt feel this way.. i dont know what to do!

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Barb is my friend on facebook and there are 3 other friends from my school who know her as well but they are not on her network. so i went to barb's page and i did a friend suggest so that all the 3 friends get selected and she receive a notification letting her know that I suggested this 3 friends: Amy, Beth, and Susan. then a week later today...I get an email from Facebook telling me that Amy has added Barb and I suggested this friendship. It also told me I could suggest more friends for Barb. Now why did I get this email today? How does this work?

I hope the links work! I'm not sure which type of piercing will suit me! I'm more interested in either a Monroe or an off center Labret (something like a small stud on my chin), or maybe an Eyebrow? I prefer the first two tho! Here are the links to my pics. http://photos-c.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v1419/12/15/721644896/n721644896_1006002_2428.jpg http://photos-b.ll.facebook.com/photos-ll-sf2p/v336/12/15/721644896/n721644896_759889_3357.jpg http://photos-f.ll.facebook.com/photos-ll-sf2p/v287/12/15/721644896/n721644896_450677_8241.jpg http://photos-f.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v615/12/15/721644896/n721644896_961341_155.jpg I'm not sure the name so maybe not a Labret but its a stud under your lower lip and its not centered. So like a Monroe but under the lip not on top! :)

I started facebook3 weeks ago, today a person appeared from sweden I don't know with photo,nor could I ever have known. is that common???

How do you change the privacy settings on facebook so that people can only find you by looking at other peoples friends?

quite a few folk seem be leaving FB. i have have also deleted my account, was sick of the fakeness on there. folk will add you as a friend and then never speak to you??!!! i don't mind myspace. is there any up and coming social networking site?